“Some people cross your path and change your whole direction…”
I came to the work of self discovery and self understanding to release the pain in my life. It all began with my marriage. My husband and I spent many years playing out a very toxic pattern of interaction that brought us much unhappiness. This pattern perpetuated until the very moment we decided we wanted something else. We dove head on into a journey toward living and loving consciously and with authenticity.
This journey, at equal times, challenging and exhilarating, has taught me to take one-hundred percent responsibility for my actions, thoughts and beliefs. It has taught me to communicate with absolute authenticity and truthfulness without blame. Not only did the experience help my husband and I to transform our relationship with each other, it helped me to improve my relationships with my five children, family, friends; and most importantly, it transformed my relationship with myself.
We are all creators of our own experience and I am committed to supporting others become conscious, deliberate creators of their most radiantly fulfilling lives.
The work of recreating our marriage was primarily based on the teachings of Gay and Katie Hendricks’ Conscious Loving and Living, and the transformational work of my mentors Diana Chapman and Jim Dethmer, co-authors of The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership. I launched into a parallel journey of discovery about myself. Eventually I came upon a program created by Claire Zammit and Katherine Woodward, called Feminine Power and participated in the nine-month course. This program brought me into deep connection with who I am at my core; who I want to be; and what I want to create and experience in my life. It was during this program that I decided that I wanted to become a life coach. The more connected I became to myself and understood that I was creating my own experience, the more powerful and free I felt.
As I experienced the positive impact this was having on my life, the more I wanted to share what I had learned with my friends and family, actually with anyone that would listen. I decided that I wanted to help others transform their lives like I had done with my own.
It feels like the very moment that I decided this is what I wanted to do, the means of doing it fell into my lap. After receiving an email about the Quantum Success Coaching Academy(QSCA), which offers a life coaching certification program, I knew that I needed to pursue it. The QSCA exposed me to quantum physics and the Law of Attraction, concepts that ignited in me the greatest sense of knowing and the biggest “Aha” I have experienced in my life. I had not previously considered the idea that everything in the universe is energy, including our thoughts and beliefs, or the idea that like energy attracts like energy. Once considered, I immediately understood with the greatest clarity that no matter whether consciously or unconsciously done, we are all creators of our experience. With this clarity, I felt a dramatically increased interest in examining my actions and the thoughts and beliefs that drove those actions. I experienced a full body “yes” to choosing to be a conscious, deliberate creator and, I am committed to helping others become conscious creators in their lives.