The universe is like a perfect butler.
We ask for something and it responds with “As you wish.” Moments later the butler returns with what we asked for delivered on a silver platter.
You may be thinking, “sure, that’s how it works for you, but not in my life.” I say to you, Not True.
This cosmic butler works the same for everyone.
We ask and it is given.
The problem is that we don’t always recognize it as the answer to our request.
What is actually delivered to us is the opportunity to create what we have requested and we have to make the choices that take us in the direction of what we want. For instance, we want to be brave and we put out the cosmic request “help me to be brave.”
What we get in return is an opportunity to be brave.
If you are afraid to speak in public and wish to overcome it, you are presented with the opportunity to address a large audience. The bravery is developed when you step up to the podium shaking like a leaf, speak to the audience and survive. Voila! You were just brave.
We are perpetually putting out the request to be a better version of ourselves with our desires. Hoping to be more kind, patient, loving, brave, decisive, organized, etc… And the universe/God/Source is always responding with opportunities to strengthen and develop those aspects of ourselves.
The place where we seem to get the greatest opportunity to heal and strengthen ourselves is in our closest relationships. It happens all day, every day. However, we often miss this opportunity by looking at the situation that is offered to us and seeing a problem with the “it” or the other person/people involved, especially if that person is our significant other or child.
The best way I know how to shift out of the fogginess of seeing a problem out there and into an awareness of the opportunity that is being offered to me is to ask the question “How is that just like me?”
When I ask “How is that just like me?” I am receiving that silver platter from the cosmic butler and thinking “What opportunity to see myself have you brought me today?”
I describe this process in more detail in my article…This Sneaky Mind Trick Can Prevent A Ton of Unnecessary Fights. Take a look and see if you are willing to see those “problem” situations as gifts from the universe.
Thank you for being a part of this conscious community.
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